How I 10x'd My Matches With AI Photos (And Why Most Advice Is Wrong)
I used to wonder if I was just ugly.
Seriously. When you're getting 2-3 matches per month and most of them don't even respond, you start to question everything. Maybe the apps are broken. Maybe I need to hit the gym harder. Maybe some guys just aren't meant for online dating.
I tried everything. Better bios. Different prompts. I even paid for Tinder Platinum thinking the algorithm would finally work in my favor. Spoiler: it didn't.
I tried other AI tools to generate photos of me. The results? They didn't look like me. Or they looked so polished and professional that they screamed "this is fake." Neither helped. I even hired professional photographers, and that actually made my matches worse.
Then I figured something out that changed everything.
The Problem Wasn't Me. It Was My Photos.
Here's what nobody tells you: your bio barely matters. Research shows photos are roughly 10x more important than your bio. You could have the wittiest bio ever crafted, but if your photos aren't working, you're invisible.
I started digging into the actual science. I studied profiles that were crushing it and noticed patterns. And I asked women for honest feedback on what was working and what wasn't.
The problem was, I didn't have the right photos. And like most guys, I don't have a personal photographer following me around capturing perfect candid moments.
The Breakthrough
After a lot of trial and error (and I mean a lot) I cracked the code on generating AI photos that actually work. Photos that look like me. That look natural, like a friend took them on their phone. Not like some studio headshot or obvious AI creation.
Combined with everything I learned about what actually attracts matches, I rebuilt my profile from scratch.
The result? I went from 2-3 matches per month to 30-40 per week.
And I'm in one of Europe's most competitive dating markets. I swipe left on about 90% of women because I'm picky. I'm looking for a serious relationship, not just anyone who'll match with me.
But Here's What Actually Matters
The match count isn't even the real win.
Everyone in this space brags about "500 matches!" or "100 likes in a day!" Cool. But what's the point if you're matching with people you're not actually interested in? That's just more time wasted swiping through conversations that go nowhere.
The real transformation wasn't just more matches. It was the right matches.
By tailoring my profile strategically, I started attracting women who were actually my type. Not just physically, but personality-wise too. The conversations are different now. Women respond instead of ghosting. I'm actually lining up dates instead of staring at a dead inbox.
That's what most dating advice gets wrong. It optimizes for vanity metrics. More matches! More likes! But a hundred matches that ghost you is worth less than ten who actually want to meet up. Whatever you're looking for, you need matches that actually go somewhere.
What I Learned
If you're frustrated with dating apps right now, here's what I wish someone had told me:
Your photos are the problem. Not you. Not the algorithm. Not your height or your face or whatever else you've been blaming. It's your photos.
Most guys are using selfies, bad lighting, group shots where you can't tell who's who, or photos that make them look boring. And then they wonder why nothing works.
The right photos (ones that show you in the right way, in the right settings, with the right energy) can completely transform your results. I'm living proof.
Want the Same Results?
I built GetMatches.ai to help other guys do exactly what I did. Without the years of trial and error.
We use AI to generate natural-looking photos tailored to you, combined with strategies that actually work to help you attract the right matches. Not just more matches. Better ones.
Because you're probably not ugly. You just have the wrong photos.